Sandra Bullock : Spending Quality Time With Ryan Reynolds

Sandra Bullock has been spending a lot of time with Scarlett Johansson's soon to be ex-husband , Ryan Reynolds , leaving many to wonder if the two are romantically involved .

"Sandra loves Ryan ,"  a friend of Ryan's says . "They became  very good friends when they filmed  'The Proposal,' but they are not a couple , at least not yet ."

For now ; They love spending quality time together ."

Adding fuel to the rumors , the two celebrated New Year's Day together at The  Bistro , which Sandra owns in Texas , new photographs show them sitting next to each other  with three other friends ....with Sandra dressed as a flapper .

"They are both newly single  and leaning on each other  for support," an insider says . "Who knows what will happen in the future , but any rumors of them being together and splitting up Ryan's marriage  to Scarlett Johansson are false .

A source adds ; "Sandra would never get involved with a married man after what her ex (Jesse James) did to her . Sandra has  way to much respect for Scarlett , Ryan , the institution of marriage  and herself to do that .

Just a thought :  Although , now that Ryan is a single guy , who knows what  will happen ?  I can't wait to find out ...stay tuned  ...updates when they become available

Sandra Bullock : Won't Take Jesse James Back

Sources close to Sandra Bullock  tell FOX411.com that the actress is definitely not taking ex-husband  Jesse James back after the two split in March following allegations of  James infidelity from multiple mistresses.

Desipte reports that Bullock, 46, and James , 41, speak frequently and have met up, we have learned  that Sandra and Jesse are  reconciling only to the extent  necessary for her to be able to spend time with his children.

"Sandra's doing it especially for Sunny," the insider  told FOX411.com. "Sandra is not ready to give up on Jesse's children. She wants to be in their lives and continue  to spend time  with them . Sandra will not be letting Jesse back into her life otherwise. Sandra is holding strong and firm to her  solo future plans.

"Sandra is moving on with her life  and setting into single life just find. She is busy  with Baby Louis, work and friends," said the source..
But James will be close by much of the time. The exees agreed that he could get a home  near her Austin, Texas home so they can co-parent his children.

"They are selling their  joint Los Angeles home  together  and Jesse has his own Los Angeles place. sandra will split her time between Texas and New Orleans and Jesse will split his time between Los Angeles  and Texas," the insider explained . "Sandra and Jesse speak  infrequently , via e-mail and other people. It's a lot to take on so close to their break-up...but it is all about the kids. Sandra's friends are worried about her being  close to him at all, but Sandra knows what she wants . Jesse can only get back into her life if Sandra chooses and she is nowhere near that place."

Despite James' public apologies  to Bullock and desire to reconcile, our sources say it's not in the cards. "Sandra will not be taking him back or spending any quality time with Jesse. They are over   and she made it very clear to Jesse," the source said.

My spin :  Can't say I blame her....but right now it's a wait and see game, Sandra do love Jesse's children and he's using them to get sandra back.
Kicking back and keeping it real.

Sandra Bullock : Will She Give Jesse James A Second Chance ???

It's been said that Jesse James has been working overtime to win back his ex-wife Sandra Bullock, and now source tell me all his efforts have - woh ! - actually paid off.
"Sandra has  made it clear that Jesse is the love of her life,"a friend of  the actress said. "She's not the sort of lady that just stops loving someone , no matter what he did behind her back. Sandra misses him and their life together every single day. You have to remember Sandra raised Sunny [Jesse's 6-year-old daughter ] as her own for the past five (5) years. Packing her school lunches , brushing her hair, reading her bedtimes stories . Sandra even took care of Sunny while Jesse was getting help in rehab."
Sandra and Jesse have been in constant contact since the day in March that Sandra left, however, sources  say that recently their conversations have been less and less about the children and more about the two of them and everyday stuff.
"Jesse has made her smile again. She can finally have normal conversation with him again without focusing on the pain and anger," a friend of Sandra's said. She really is the most amazing person you will ever meet. Her heart is big and open ; holding onto anger makes you bitter and twisted and that's not  and never will be who she is.
Sandra's friend says Jesse has been charming the actress with stories of mundane tasks he's been undertaking at his new home in Austin, which happens to be just 16 miles from her Texas  digs.
Sandra thinks its hilarious listening to him talking about what towels he needs to buy or  that Sunny wants to paint the entire house pink ! She would always be in charge of looking after the home in the past and knows interior decorating  and Jesse is not a good fit.
In her first interview after the split, Sandra made it clear how important  Jesse's children are to her, saying, "I don't want to know what life is  like without those kids." And now the court has approved Jesse's petition to let him take Sunny away from her mother, Janine Lindemulder, Sandra won't have to.
Jesse and Sunny, as well as his other children, Chandler,15, and Jesse Jr. , 12, will all relocate to Austin just mintues away from the place  Sandra call home.And with Jesse's new workplace , a motorcycle shop just steps away from Walton's Fancy & Staple , a deli and grocery that Sandra owns, they will be seeing even more of each other.
However, its not just the children that have brought the couple back together .Famed M.D. Keith Ablow explains , "Infidelity is almost never a reason why educated , introspective and forgiving  people stay separated  or divorced . If other facets  of the relationship are present - including commitment to one's children and an overriding sense that life is more meaningful together than apart - then marriages can not only survive infidelity, but end up stronger , despite of it."
Jesse's ex-wife agrees , telling this weeks issure of Life & Style  magazine , "They want to exclude me. Jessewill do anything to get back in Sandra's good graces." Stay tuned  the saga continues and we are watchin it closely.
My spin : Sandra, hope whatever choice you make it will be the best one for all that's involved....and whatever Jesse is doing, it seems to be working.
Kicking back and keeping it real...having fun as always.

Sandra Bullock : Jesse & Sandra - No longer Legally Married "HURRAH".

Sandra Bullock and Jesse James are no longer legally 'married.'


The couple's divorce was finalized in Travis County,Texas, TMZ reports. Sandra filed papers on April 23, describing the marriage as "insupportable because of discord or conflict of personalities."


Just days after taking home her first Academy Award , Bullock learned her husband had been having several affairs, when the first of the women -- Michelle 'Bombshell' McGee -- came forward with her story.


Jesse was then implicated in seven (7) extramarital affairs.


Although James and Bullock worked to together to adopt Louis Bardot back in January, custody was never an issure in the split, as James dropped his name from the adoption papers. James has three children from previous relationships.

The 'Monster Garage' host and Sandra wed in 2005.

My spin : Sandra ...good for you , so now girl get on with your life with your beautiful baby....there's a good man for you out there, he may just be around the corner or down the block, so keep your head up and your eyes open...never settle for less.
Kicking back having fun and keeping it real.

Sandra Bullock : Life With Louis "Wonderful"

Sandra Bullock has mostly stayed out of the public since her husband Jesse James multiple affairs were exposed in March - until now. The Oscar winner made a triuphant return to the spotlight not once but twice in one weekend, beginning June 5, when she surprised the audience at Spike TV's Guys Choice Awards and accepted the win for Entertainer of the Year !
As the mostly male audience gave her a standing ovation, Sandra teased, Let's be honest here just a moment..."did I win this for being entertainer of the year, or did I win this because of the spectaclar IED [improvised explosive device] explosion that became my personal life?" After the laughter subsided she got serious , telling the soldiers who voted for her, "I'll do it over again if it was to entertain our troops. "Then it went right back to joking, I would sing , but you're seen enough pain in your lifetime," offered Sandra. "I would dance - I'm a pretty god dancer...but the dress is to tight."
The next night, Sandra,45, showed a lot of leg - in a black sparkly mini with a low-cut back at the MTV Movie Awards, where she was presented with the Generation Award by Bradley cooper, Betty White and Scarlett Johansson " Honey , don't ever wear that dress backwards," the golden Girl deadpanned to her , The Proposal co-star after sharing a hug. The comedy countinued as Sandra joked that the Generation Award sounded like it should be for "old people who has extended their welcome" before insisting to the audience,"I love what I do and I'm not going anywhere." sandra turned to Scarlett and asked what she was doing on stage because her presence was "so weird." After Scarlett explained she was the stand-in for her hubby...Ryan Reynolds--- who was nominated with Sandra for Best Kiss in The Proposal.(they lost to Robert Pattinson and Kristen Stewart in New Moon)---Sandra joking planted a kiss on Scarlett's lips . Sandra turned to audience and said, "Can we please go back to normal?" Because therapy is really expensive.(In reference to her separation to her separation from Jesse).
Over the past three months following the split, Sandra has been completely focused on raising her 5-month-old son. But Hollywood is still knocking .Sandra's thinking it over at the moment, says an insider. Just because she has her son at home and is busy being a mommy, that doesn't mean she can't make a movie or two a year. Sandra really has the right support system to be able to thrive as a working single mom. And she looked so amazing at both awards shows, every producer in town ants her.
Sandra's biggest reason to smile is her 5-month-old son. "He's just perfect," she says. "There's nothing hard about loving my baby son...I guess you can say I am surprised at how easy it has been for me.
My spin : Looking good Sandra , just keep a level head and a good man will come your way, we are pulling for you because you are "America's sweetheart.
Kickin back keeping it real and like to report on the good things in Hollywood, they are so few and far between.