Oskana Grigorieva to Judge : Make Mel Gibson Pay For My PR "WTF"

    Oksana Grigorieva spent thousands of dallors in PR to thwart public perception that she sold  the secret tapes  ... and now she wants Mel to foot the bill ...sources tell TMZ.

    We're told Oksana racked up $84,000 in PR expenses  and certain unpaid legal fees . As for the PR fees , TMZ sources say Oksana felt hiring PR reps was the only  way counter someone as big and powerful as Mel Gibson . Oksana - who insists she didn't sell the tapes  - felt she was getting trashed in the media.

    Sources say Oksana wants Judge Scott Gordon in the custody/child support case to clear the $84,000 debt.

    Here's the disconnect :
    
    The judge would never award money for PR expenses . Aside from legal fees , Judge Gordon  would adjust the existing agreement  -  $5,ooo a month plus the house - only based on the needs of baby Lucia.

    As TMz first reported , Oksana's lawyers have gone to court and asked Judge Gordon to up the monthly child support obligation to upwards of  $40,ooo a month.

    TMZ is told the judge is yet to rule on the request.

    My spin : Good luck Oksana... everyone knows you are a home-wrecker and a gold-digger , but no women deserves what  Mad Mel did to you....but we would like to know how in hell did the media get the tapes, they were in your possession...did  a family member take them...that always seem the way it gets leaked to the public....HA !