Monday, July 26, 2010

Sandra Bullock : Will She Give Jesse James A Second Chance ???


It's been said that Jesse James has been working overtime to win back his ex-wife Sandra Bullock, and now source tell me all his efforts have - woh ! - actually paid off.
"Sandra has  made it clear that Jesse is the love of her life,"a friend of  the actress said. "She's not the sort of lady that just stops loving someone , no matter what he did behind her back. Sandra misses him and their life together every single day. You have to remember Sandra raised Sunny [Jesse's 6-year-old daughter ] as her own for the past five (5) years. Packing her school lunches , brushing her hair, reading her bedtimes stories . Sandra even took care of Sunny while Jesse was getting help in rehab."
Sandra and Jesse have been in constant contact since the day in March that Sandra left, however, sources  say that recently their conversations have been less and less about the children and more about the two of them and everyday stuff.
"Jesse has made her smile again. She can finally have normal conversation with him again without focusing on the pain and anger," a friend of Sandra's said. She really is the most amazing person you will ever meet. Her heart is big and open ; holding onto anger makes you bitter and twisted and that's not  and never will be who she is.
Sandra's friend says Jesse has been charming the actress with stories of mundane tasks he's been undertaking at his new home in Austin, which happens to be just 16 miles from her Texas  digs.
Sandra thinks its hilarious listening to him talking about what towels he needs to buy or  that Sunny wants to paint the entire house pink ! She would always be in charge of looking after the home in the past and knows interior decorating  and Jesse is not a good fit.
In her first interview after the split, Sandra made it clear how important  Jesse's children are to her, saying, "I don't want to know what life is  like without those kids." And now the court has approved Jesse's petition to let him take Sunny away from her mother, Janine Lindemulder, Sandra won't have to.
Jesse and Sunny, as well as his other children, Chandler,15, and Jesse Jr. , 12, will all relocate to Austin just mintues away from the place  Sandra call home.And with Jesse's new workplace , a motorcycle shop just steps away from Walton's Fancy & Staple , a deli and grocery that Sandra owns, they will be seeing even more of each other.
However, its not just the children that have brought the couple back together .Famed M.D. Keith Ablow explains , "Infidelity is almost never a reason why educated , introspective and forgiving  people stay separated  or divorced . If other facets  of the relationship are present - including commitment to one's children and an overriding sense that life is more meaningful together than apart - then marriages can not only survive infidelity, but end up stronger , despite of it."
Jesse's ex-wife agrees , telling this weeks issure of Life & Style  magazine , "They want to exclude me. Jessewill do anything to get back in Sandra's good graces." Stay tuned  the saga continues and we are watchin it closely.
My spin : Sandra, hope whatever choice you make it will be the best one for all that's involved....and whatever Jesse is doing, it seems to be working.
Kicking back and keeping it real...having fun as always.

2 comments:

  1. Let me know where you will be...so I won't be jumping all over the place.

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